BE by Design: How I BE Is Up to Me™ for Couples

What is the BE by Design™ process

How are the BE by Design™ couples coaching sessions designed?

BE by Design™ couples coaching sessions using the BE by Design™ process are for couples who are serious about awakening, understanding and making changes to fulfill the highest version of themselves, as individuals and then integrating this into their partnership. If you are desiring a relationship that is built on :

  • respect, compassion, love and joy
  • transparent, open and honest communication
  • both parties wanting to become aware of how they have been influenced by, and allowed behaviours, traits, addictions, patterns and social conditioning to impact on the current levels of [un]happiness in your relationship
  • both parties consciously taking action and making changes to beliefs, attitudes, values, patterns and behaviours within the relationship to be able to maintain a strong connection, then BE by Design™ couples coaching is for you


Session lengths vary depending on the nature of the challenge/s the couple currently finds themselves in, and depth of self-exploration that the couples chooses. While estimated time frames will be given at the time of booking, experience has shown that between 6 to 8 hours is realistic, spaced across 3 to 4 sessions.  Our goal is to assist all of our couples to be self-empowered and confident in using all of the tools shared without dependency on the therapist.

All sessions along with appropriate between-session tasks (to reinforce learning) will be designed in collaboration with you, the client, to ensure that your needs and goals are achieved. Of major benefit is that you will be able to use all the tools from the BE by Design™ process and apply them to all situations, relationships and events that occur in your life moving forward.

Your continued growth is very important to us, so we encourage you to stay connected by accessing the tips, tools, resources, YouTube videos and downloadable mp3’s on this site, Facebook, Twitter and on our blog at Please also contribute your ideas and experiences on any of these forums. 

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What are you accountable for in the BE by Design™ process?

There are four key areas that you need to commit to and be accountable for, to ensure you achieve maximum results.

(i) Both parties attend each scheduled session, on time,
(ii) Complete all tasks assigned at the end of each session, by agreed dates,
(iii) Be a 'participant' in your transformation both in sessions and once out in your own environment. No 'observers', and 
(iv) Take action once the therapeutic relationship has completed.